tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6509965338554299908.post2850867728906295219..comments2023-06-20T06:16:19.595-04:00Comments on fancy pantalons: rocky startfancy pantalonshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13639780477135419036noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6509965338554299908.post-20023045616676828082010-04-20T14:16:58.380-04:002010-04-20T14:16:58.380-04:00It is a miracle, Kate. Honestly. And I think you&#...It is a miracle, Kate. Honestly. And I think you're absolutely spot-on about a period of mourning. In some ways, it feels more like Stockholm syndrome!<br /><br />I think I'm also mourning the loss of control over how my life will unfold. If I stay up late and eat sesame sticks until I feel sick, I know exactly how I'll feel the next day: sorry for myself and nauseated. If I go to bed early and wake up refreshed, who knows what might happen! Like Geneen says, we just need to start showing up for our life and accept whatever comes our way.fancy pantalonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13639780477135419036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6509965338554299908.post-40520353215284221632010-04-20T12:30:15.764-04:002010-04-20T12:30:15.764-04:00My counselor and I talked today about how, as we b...My counselor and I talked today about how, as we begin to heal, there is a period of mourning that happens for life-as-we-knew-it, for particular coping mechanisms and ways of being in relationship with yourself and others. Perhaps it's not a new compulsion, Elyssa, but perhaps it is just as scary! The fact that you're writing and thinking and talking about it is a miracle, though, isn't it?Katehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08339928751812753560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6509965338554299908.post-83731919170439660092010-04-20T11:56:03.939-04:002010-04-20T11:56:03.939-04:00@Stefan: Oh, really? Well, I guess it's a Fre...@Stefan: Oh, really? Well, I guess it's a Freudian slip!<br /><br />@Allison: I remember that, too. We clearly needed to nourish ourselves, but I'm sure whatever I chose was the opposite. I'm trying to pay more attention to what foods make me feel awesome and productive. I'll share my findings.fancy pantalonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13639780477135419036noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6509965338554299908.post-8423800600766606532010-04-20T11:28:19.576-04:002010-04-20T11:28:19.576-04:00Remembering a conversation we once had about how m...Remembering a conversation we once had about how much we had to eat to get us through writing a particular paper. Uggh. No more.Allisonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07755467738869832755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6509965338554299908.post-6652133040431148362010-04-20T11:13:49.391-04:002010-04-20T11:13:49.391-04:00It's "Fatality", not "vitality&...It's "Fatality", not "vitality"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com